TOO YOUNG TO WED… A
MASTERPIECE.
Opener 00:08-00:11 00:11-00:18 00:18-00:31 00:31-00:38 |
One day she’s
a child. The next she’s a wife. UPSOT HERE OF BEEZLY
SOBBING UNCONTROLLABLY TO TEASE IT FOR LATER??? That’s
the reality for one in three girls in Bangladesh. At best they lose their
childhood and a chance for education. At worst they
face dangerous child birth, violence and virtual slavery. I’m Steve Chao. On this episode of 101 East, we enter the world of Bangladesh’s child brides |
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Scene setters of Bangladesh… 00:50-00:57 1:05-1:12 Day 1 Clip 1-7, Clip 10/11 1:22-1:30 farmers working in the field sequence Day 1 Clip 168 farmer shoveling on the ground in the fields A time of plenty, a
time for .. marriage.. But, but, but…. school shots, children walking Two shot in the classroom. CAN WE USE ANY OF THE CLASSROOM PIX ANYWHERE? |
This is one of Bangladesh’s poorest regions. More than half the population
live below the poverty line. But right now it’s harvest-time. A time of plenty, A time ... for marriage.
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Interview with Beezly about being a doctor Beezly Day 9 Clip #49 1:31-1:47 |
I want to be so many things when I grow up. I want to be a doctor so I can help people. I want to study i want to become someone big when i grow up. |
1:50-2:06 day 9 clip 41 00:00-00:09 (Tania) day 9 clip 44, 45 00:00-00:12 (beezly quiet) day 9 clip 57-clip 61 chalkboard |
But
today is her last day of childhood. Tomorrow,
Beezly is marrying an older man that she has met only once. Beezley
is just 13. Under Bangladeshi law, the wedding will be illegal. |
2:07-2:27 Clip
46 00:23-00:41 clip 46 01:00-01:05 |
I didn’t want this wedding. I agreed under one condition that I would continue my studies after marriage. They are marrying me off forcefully. |
2:30-2:35 2:36-2:41 2:42-2:52 2:53-3:00 3:01-3:09 3:15-3:17 Start of the pre-ceremony (cutting up vegetables etc? grandmother helping her
put on sari, undo hair) day 9 3:30-3:41 3:47-3:50 clip 72: 11.37.45 - MS, father of bride wringing
girl bride’s hands to put on bracelet/ pan - WS, girl and man
surrounded by people clip 94- 11.49.27 - MS, woman shows sari, pan to her
putting it on girl bride clip 95- 11.51.12 - MS, girl bride and woman
interact clip 96- 11.51.36 - MS, woman de-braids her hair and
puts it into a bun clip 107- 11.56.11 - MS, girl bride looking into mirror, woman helping clip 189 (lots of sad pix of Beezly with Tania and
also closeups of her |
When she gets home from school the
preparations for her wedding have already begun. Beezly’s father has saved
up enough money for a dowry to pay the groom’s family. Because of this
tradition, girls in Bangladesh are seen as a burden - no matter whether the families are
Muslim - like most of the population here - or Hindu like Beezly’s family. For Hindus, marriage is full of rituals -
the first of these symbolises her
future as a married woman.. Binding her to her
future husband forever. Then, Beezly’s school uniform is traded in for her first sari. This marks her as a
woman ----even though she’s still just a young girl. The last step is to unbraid her hair
and tie it in a traditional knot.. the symbol of a Bengali bride. Her transformation is complete. |
3:57-4:08 |
As everyone prepares for the
festivities, I sit with Beezly and sense her helplessness...it’s hard to know what to say.. |
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UPSOT- short silence |
Beezly SOT 4:12-4:22 clip 178- 12.35.09 - CS, Tania talking to child bride about her wedding, her feelings (3) |
SOT Does anyone want to
leave their parents house? No one wants to do that. But they’re forcing me. What can
I do - they are forcing me. |
Tania PTC clip 194 4:23-4:45 |
PTC She’s shaking and she’s terrified and she has
no idea what’s going on around her. She has no control over the situation |
4:46-4:57 |
Outside, her aunt
grinds tumeric into a paste.
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5:00-5:09 |
UPSOT ULLULATING |
5:10-5:23 5:23-5:31 5:31-5:41 |
Then, her aunts bless her with oil and water. Village elders only gave the go-ahead
for Beezly to marry one day ago.. she didn’t have time to tell her friends at school. She’s playing the role that’s expected of her in Bangladeshi
society.. maintaining family honour by, marrying young. The whole community is here but no one seems concerned about what
Beezly wants.. ...or that her
marriage will be against the law. |
5:51-5:57 5:57-6:07 6:07-6:24 Music under Beezly
looking reflective GVs Thought track- Tania wandering clip 135- 21.55.47- MS, pensive Tania sitting in field (4) clip 140- 21.58.51- MS, pensive Tania sitting in field, sun setting, silhouette (2) clip 141- 21.58.57- MS, pensive Tania sitting in field, sun setting, silhouette (3) Cultural mindset… |
On the morning of
Beezly’s wedding, I can’t help but think how
familiar this feels. I spent a large part
of my childhood in Bangladesh I want to understand why this keeps happening.. generation after generation.. and if there’s any hope for girls like Beezly who would rather make their own choices, like I did. |
Transition??? |
MUSIC / traffic |
6:26-6:40 6:40-6:46 context on Bangladesh clip 94- 18.32.48- garment workers walking clip 95- 18.33.23- garment workers enter building (2) clip 96-18.33.46- pedestrian foot traffic clip 97- 18.34.10- garment workers exit building |
There are
organisations who are trying to stop child marriage since it was outlawed in
the eighties. But today, Bangladesh still
has the highest rate of child marriage in Asia. The laws are hard to enforce… Families defy the ban by making fake birth certificates. |
Senait Gebregziabher Cut the part ‘as I said to you first
of all’ 6:46-7:10 |
It’s
illegal...but |
Office shots-
includes tight shots of Gebregziabher face and wide from the door 7:10-7:20 |
Senait Gebre---gziabher works for Plan International, an NGO
which is working to keep girls in school.
But they are fighting against strong cultural beliefs. |
Senait Gebregziabher … expert from plan international. 7:20-7:40 |
They do it from all over… most places in Bangladesh.. and It has societal implication as well. Because you know, if one child does not get married at the early age society talks about it… why she is not getting married. |
Transition - Majeda in village 7:42-7:57 |
Experts like Senait say a government
proposal to lower the legal marriage age girls like Majeda who lives in a remote village in the country’s north. |
Majeda and Tania in
the car 7:57-8:04 8:04-8:15
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Majeda is only 13
and was forced to marry last year.
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Majeda grab (VOICE OVER THIS GRAB) 8:15-8:29 End of Clip #106, Day 3 Majeda and Tania in car |
I grew up and worked in my uncle’s house because my parents were too poor to afford me, then after he died my parents married me off, i studied till the second grade. |
8:30-8:43 Walking to the tree
(Majeda smiling), Tania and Majeda sitting down, shots of them together under
the tree |
The further we go
from her home, the more happy Majeda seems. But when she talks about life with her husband, she can’t look me in the eye. |
Majeda SOT: Day 3, Clip #116 8:43-9:01 GET MAJEDA TALKING |
I didn’t feel good getting married. I thought, how am I going to live with this man? Then 3 months later.. I realised I have to stay here, I have to stay at my husband’s house for the rest of my life. |
9:02-9:10 |
Majeda is already a
mother to a little boy. Doctors told her she’s malnourished and is too young to deal with a baby. |
Majeda 9:10-9:45 |
It’s hard. I’m learning how to be a mother. Having a kid is so tough. The baby eats…but my milk isn’t enough. the baby cries.. When i was giving birth, the doctor wanted to do a c section but my husband said no. The doctor said I was married so young how can I even have the baby? I had nothing in my body. |
9:46-9:52 |
… At home, there are
other problems. Majeda says she feels like a slave.. |
Majeda SOT: Day 3, Clip 9:52-10:11 CUT THE TOP OF THIS SOT |
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Foreground shot of
hubby combing hair 10:13-10:19 |
Majeda
says her husband is often violent and beat her when she was pregnant. |
Majeda SOT: Day 3, Clip #116 10:19-10:27 |
He beats
me with his hands on my back. .. When he beats me, I feel sad. |
10:29-10:38 |
But there’s little
sympathy here for girls like Majeda.. One of the village elders tells me, girls should be married young, for their own protection. |
Village elder day 14 clip 10:38-11:02 |
Getting a girl married
young is a good thing. Even if they die, at least they are married. It’s also a good thing
because some run away |
11:03-11:08 11:08-11:13 11:13-11:19 11:19-11:26 11:26-11:34 |
Child brides aren’t
just at risk of domestic violence. Pregnancy and
childbirth can cause significant damage to their undeveloped bodies. Dr Beatrice Berger
is a doctor at Bangladesh’s only clinic dealing with
fistula…
a complication
during birth that causes the reproductive organs, rectum and bladder to
split. The condition leaves young women incontinent, and in pain .. living as outcasts in their community. |
11:34-11:47 |
it’s really hard to live near a patient who’s really full of urine. It’s
like we wilter when we see them The worst case is that they die. I mean
many are dying |
11:47-11:53 |
VO: Anjuara is one of Dr Berger’s patients she’s been suffering fistula for 9 years |
11:53-12:15 |
People would cover their faces as I walked
by. I felt so bad. I felt so alone. People said all kinds of things about me. For that reason I went through a lot,
these last 9 years. And after all my struggles, I ended up here.
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Dr Beatrice talking to Anjuara 12:15-12:21 |
UPSOT: You have no trouble eating? You’re not feeling nauseous are you? |
12:21-12:30 |
UPSOT: Dr Beatrice: You got married after the 5th
grade right? Then you were about 13-14 when you had 2 pregnancies? |
12:30-12:35 Dr Beatrice talking to Anjuara or other shots? |
Anjuara’s just had an operation that will stop her living a life of shame. |
Dr Beatrice 12:35-12:53 |
It’s very
amazing to have the chance to help them in this situation, to see them when
they are dry. She got operated yesterday and after many years, she
spent a dry night. That’s so
amazing for her. |
12:53-12:59 |
It’s too late for Anjuara’s marriage though. Her husband left
her and married someone else. |
Transition |
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13:05-13:20 |
In these villages,
girls like Anjuara can lose their
childhood in a blink of the eye. But one young man KESHAB ROY is on a mission to stop girls from being
married off so early. |
13:20-13:26 13:28-13:37 |
He takes his message door to door. Today, he’s visiting a family who are planning to marry off their 13 year old
daughter. With him, is a group of boys, who
Keshab is training to prevent child marriages.. He thinks that’s the best way to create change in the
next generation. |
13:37-13:41 13:44-13:48 13:48-13:53 13:54-13:58 13:58-14:00 |
Keshab: i heard you
were going to marry Shanu
off? Mom: She’s old enough (says off
camera so will need to be overlaid)
Keshab: No,
she’s not old
enough. She’s 12-13 years old. Are you going
to marry her off or not? Please talk to us. Mom: I’m going to marry her off |
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14:00-14:07 14:08-14:14 14:14-14:17 14:17-14:25 |
Keshab:
Please don’t try to marry her off. If you make arrangements, we
will prevent and try to break it. Mom: If it makes sense to take her to school then we
will, but if not... Keshab: you will marry her off? Mom: yes, marry her off. Everyone Everyone take my mobile number…and let me know as soon as this marriage is going to
happen and I will make sure I break it |
14:25-14:29 |
VO: Keshab is determined to change her mind. |
14:29-14:34 14:34-14:35 14:35-14:39 |
We want what’s best for you, not what’s bad for
you. Everyone wants your daughter to be educated. Mom: She is studying. Keshab: No problem then |
14:40-14:46 Tania and Keshab walking |
Keshab hopes he’s made a difference, BUT It’s not easy to change long-held cultural beliefs |
14:46-14:52 Keshab and Tania walking |
It was a tragedy in his own family that drives him to try and stop child marriages. |
14:52-15:23 Keshab and Tania SOT BADRUL PLS REVOICE AND SAY ‘TAKING POISON” |
I had a niece who
committed suicide by taking poison because her family was
forcing her to marry as a child. She
never wanted to marry so young. Everyone was screaming
when we took her to hospital. I took her
on a rickshaw but halfway down the road she began to choke. I felt sick. I keep thinking of her. Why isn’t she here? How many more girls are going to die like this? |
** CHANGE THIS LINE 15:24-15:29 |
Since then, Keshab has stopped dozens of child marriages in his village. |
15:30-15:32 15:32-15:36 |
Keshab: Right now we
are going to Ashfia’s house Ashfia are you home? Open your door |
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15:40-15:44 15:44-15:46 15:46-15:48 15:49-15:51 |
UPSOT Tania: Are you doing well? Ashfia: I’m fine Tania: Is this your home? Ashfia is
one girl he’s saved. Tania: Oh there are your books |
Asfia Speaks 15:51-16:13 |
Without him I would be
married off at 13. He came to my house
and asked my parents why t |
BROLL ASFIA 16:13-16:21 |
When she finishes school, Ashfia wants to join the police force.
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16:21-16:43 |
Well daughters are expensive. While she goes to school, I have to buy her books so having a daughter is a problem. If she had a husband ...there’d be no issue with expenses. These days, girls have the same rights as boys but i could have gotten rid of the educational expenses if I married her off. |
16:43-16:51 |
Keshab wants to reach even more people
with his message and he knows how to draw a crowd |
16:51-16:59 |
UPSOT Clip 249 Keshab back of head on microphone: Do we want this in our community? Do we want this? No we don’t want it. Keshab What do we have to do then? We
have to prevent it. |
16:59-17:13 |
Tonight, thousands of people have come
from all over the area/district to a special film screening he’s organised. In villages with no access to
electricity, TV or entertainment…the audience is hooked.
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17:15-17:24 |
PSOT Day 2, Clip 19—Little
girl speaks on video Brother: I’m going to send you there, there’s a lot of
money.. you won’t have to struggle. Girl
I don’t want to
go… Brother: hey girl, you don’t need it
but we do. Girl: I’m not a bad girl what wrong have I done? |
Is there another shot we can put in before the drumming starts to help with the transition? |
nice nat sot of celebrations before vo UPSOT - Drumming (AMBIENT NOISE) |
17:34-17:39 17:47-17:56 |
It’s Beezly’s wedding
day, and celebrations are beginning at
her groom’s house. UPSOT: drums/horns
music playing (musicians walking into the courtyard?) This is
the man Beezly is marrying 25 year
old Shyamol picked 13-year-old Beezly because he says she’s easy to
control |
17:56-18:05 |
Shyamol tells me he was offered a lot
more dowry money to marry other girls, but he wanted the youngest and most
innocent bride. (less happy nods from Tania) |
18:05-18:27 |
I like her behavior so I picked Beezly. She’s pure. Most girls mix with other boys and have relations. I don’t like that. I’ve had better proposals but i didn’t like the girl’s behavior. A good girl goes to school and straight home...and that’s it. |
18:27-18:35 |
Beezly dreams of being a doctor and wants to stay at school, but Shyamol seems to have other plans for her. |
Shyamal SOT: 18:35-18:56 |
When I come home she
can cool me down and relieve me of my tension. A good wife takes care of me when I come
home from my shop. She will make me
food and get along with my parents.
Then our community will consider her a good wife. |
14:09:14:19 |
UPSOT: music with little girls dancing in front of crowds outside Shyamal’s house |
18:59-19:10 19:10-19:17 |
As the wedding draws closer, Shyamol’s family is in full celebration. They are looking forward to the
arrival of a new bride who can help them with household chores. I can’t help but feel how different it is
from the sombre mood at Beezley’s house yesterday. |
Shyamol on the phone 19:17-19:20 19:21-19:31 19:31-19:40 |
(Shyamal talking on
phone) I don’t want to
go another location. But for Shyamal…. not everything is going well. Local authorities have discovered his
plans to marry a child.. so they are going to have to hold the ceremony in
secret. It’s a bit demeaning and dishonoring for us. This wedding isn’t not going to be happy or joyous. |
Shots of dark road driving to house 19:40-19:53 |
it’s a bad omen to break the tradition of
marrying at the bride’s house… We head to a location where many child weddings take place away from prying eyes. |
Beezly getting dressed 19:59-20:07 20:07-20:13 20:31-20:35 20:38-20:41 20:41-20:44 |
Everyone
is racing to get the marriage started. Beezly is
already here. Her aunts
help dress her in her wedding sari.. and UPSOT: 14:32:25:28 Beezly seems
resigned to her fate. “She’s
ready” aunt says She’s quiet and sad. |
20:50-21:06 Beezly looking sad DON”T HAVE MUSIC OVER HER LONG PAUSE SO IT”S EVEN MORE EMPTY/STRONG |
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Did you sleep well? 14:36:45:16 ■
Just a little.
14:36:48:06 ■
How do you feel about seeing your husband? 14:37:06 ■
LONG
Pause14:37:10 14:38:01 Tania asking
questions (counter) |
-Shyamol arrives 21:07-21:09 21:20-21:26 21:33-21:34 21:49-21:52 21:58-22:04 |
Shyamol
is also getting dressed. UPSOT:
Put This on He seems
a lot happier than Beezly. UPSOT: Do it quickly ……………….
The priest is told to hurry to get the rituals done in case the police come. |
22:08-22:20 22:24-22:30 |
The couple began the day as strangers,
now after the ritual of circling a fire 7 times, they are married - bound together for 7 lifetimes (Badrul what are the best ritual shots
that we can use here?) There’s a big sense of relief Except for Beezly who hangs her head |
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UPSOT UPSOT: Lets hurry (shemol) 15:50:32:03 closeup of Beezly looking very downcast at 15:50:38:09 (her eyes are closing and opening) |
22:37-22:42 |
As she says goodbye to her parents it all becomes too
much. (Badrul - Let this run more before bring in line about family pulling them apart) |
22:42:-22:49 |
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22:56-23:01 Beezly collapsing 23:06-23:13 |
For a 13 year old...this is an overwhelming moment. UPSOT:
During the final blessing, she
collapses to the floor. UPSOT OF BEEZLY CRYING Bow down… crying continues…
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Uncle carries Beezly out |
15:57:21:05
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23:19-23:26 23:28-23:34 23:47-23:53 |
As Beezley continues to sob. A relative lifts her up. (DON’T SAY THE BOTTOM SOT UNTIL SHE IS NEAR THE VAN) Then she’s
bundled into a waiting van with her husband and new in-laws. And just like that… Her married life has begun. |
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FADE TO BLACK. |
Find shots of Tania and Beezly together |
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24:10-24:16 24:16-24:22 24:22-24:28 |
A week later… I go back to visit Beezly. Her life is already very different. As a new bride, her friends can no
longer visit her and she can’t stay with her family..
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day 14 21:45:33 24:28-24:31 24:31-24:37 **tania asks do you still want to be a doctor? |
Do you want to be a doctor? Ask in Bangla - Do you want to be a doctor? I don’t know. No. I can’t be a doctor now. Shakes head |
MOVE THIS HERE 24:39-24:43 |
It’s sad to see how quickly a girl’s dreams can be crushed. |
Shyamal 24:46-24:52 Day 14, Clip 128 |
Don’t you know
you’re a little
girl? (laughs) (SHOTS OF BEEZLY AND HER AND SHYAMOL TOGETHER) |
Bit of Beezley… 24:54-25:04
25:08-25:22 |
For thousands of girls like Beezley, the
Bangladeshi In this world of grinding poverty,
girls have little value. Until that changes, it’s hard to see how future generations
can break free. |
SUPERS
i.
Beezly Roy - Child Bride
ii.
Tania
Rashid -
iii.
Senait Gebregziabher - Country Director, Plan
International
iv.
Asfia
Aktar
v.
Rashida
Begum - Asfia's Mom
vi.
Anjuara
Khatum
vii.
Majeda
Begum - Child Bride
viii.
Joria
Bormon - Village Elder
ix.
Keshab Roy - Child
Rights Activist, Plan International
x.
Dr Beatrice Ambauen-Berger - Gynaecologist, Lamb Hospital
xi.
Anjuara - Patient
i.
Shyamal Roy - Groom