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Foreign
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2022
Duty
of Care
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Zhen remembers her wedding day well. When her father gave his
speech, he urged her to have two children. But now Zhen is unsure whether she
even wants to have one. Not long after her wedding, Zhen’s father Liang was diagnosed
with dementia. He was in his 50s. Now Zhen and her mother are caring for
Liang full time. And Zhen doesn’t want to impose that burden on her children. "The way I see it," Zhen explains, "without kids,
if I develop the same condition as my dad, with what I know now, I can just
send myself off to a nursing home and it’s done. I won’t put any extra
pressure on my kids, and they won’t have to endure any depression or anything
like that." It’s a problem many families in China are grappling with. As the
population ages, dementia is on the rise. But there’s little awareness of the
disease and few government services. In Australia, around 65% of patients with dementia live at home
but in China more than 96% of people with the condition are looked after by
their families. The obligation to care for your elders is deeply rooted in
Chinese culture. "That’s probably the traditional Chinese concept of filial
piety, but the reality is you can’t fulfil your duty," says Zhen. ABC reporter Lydia Feng presents this intimate and moving
program about China’s hidden epidemic. Working with local filmmakers, we take you inside three families
stretched to the limit as they do their best to look after a loved one with
dementia. We meet a widow and daughter living in the countryside, where
there are even fewer services for the elderly and their families. We spend time with a blind couple in Beijing, where despite all
hardships, Uncle Xing is still utterly devoted to his wife of nearly 50
years. "I’ve looked after only one woman my whole life. She needs
special care," says Uncle Xing. "I feel bad if she suffers." "We’re not ready. We’re not even prepared for the challenge
of aged care as a whole, let alone dementia
care," says social worker Wang Shihong, whose organisation helps support
the elderly. Shihong believes the public needs to be educated about the
problem. "The symptoms are showing up but
they’re not taken as something that needs medical attention," she says.
"If it can be spotted early in its development, through screening for
example, more can be done to slow the patient’s deterioration before it’s too
late." This film is a unique insight into the struggle of ordinary
families in China to deal with a debilitating but little understood
condition. |
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Episode
teaser |
Music
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00:10 |
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WANG
SHIHONG: We’re not ready. We’re not even prepared for the challenge of aged care as a whole, let alone dementia care. |
00:13 |
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LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: As China’s population
ages, dementia is on the rise. But public awareness, support services and
medical care are lagging far behind. |
00:22 |
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XING:
"You’re remembering stories from the past." |
00:35 |
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LYDIA FENG, Reporter: It’s putting an enormous
strain on Chinese families. QIN
ZHEN: That’s probably the traditional Chinese concept of filial piety, but
the reality is you can’t fulfil your duty. |
00:40 |
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JIN
RULIAN: "Get off!" |
00:57 |
Intro |
LYDIA FENG, Reporter: The expectation that you
should care for your elders within the family is |
01:00 |
Lydia
Feng to camera. Super: |
baked into Chinese culture and even written into
law. More than 96% of dementia
sufferers in China are cared for at home. For this program, we’ve worked with
Chinese filmmakers to take you inside three families grappling with this Duty
of Care. |
01:04 |
Title: Duty
of Care |
Music |
01:25 |
Qin Liang in lift |
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01:33 |
Qin Liang in bedroom |
LYDIA FENG, Reporter: Qin Liang was diagnosed with
dementia in January 2021. His condition is worsening rapidly. The disease is
already affecting his |
01:43 |
Qin
Liang and Yongmei testing motor skill |
speech and motor skills as well as his memory. |
01:55 |
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YONGMEI:
"Good. No problem." |
02:05 |
Liang
and Yongmei with book |
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Liang was a teacher
but has been forced to retire early, and now spends his days at home, cared
for by his wife Zhang Yongmei. |
02:11 |
Liang
and Yongmei in kitchen cooking |
Yongmei lost her mother to dementia just a few
years ago. YONGMEI:
There's always a sense of strain. |
02:22 |
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My
mum started to show symptoms at 83. So when he was
diagnosed with the same disease early last year, I couldn’t accept it. |
02:37 |
Liang
takes pills |
I
took care of my mother. I know what it's like. |
02:55 |
Family
photos |
Our
daughter was already so emotionally mature. |
03:02 |
Qin
Zhen in car on phone |
She'd
come home every weekend to help me care for her grandmother. I feel like I
owe my daughter so much. |
03:08 |
Qin
Zhen interview in car |
QIN
ZHEN: I was at university when my grandma started showing symptoms. I could
see my mum was devastated. Grandma was unhappy too because Mum controlled her
too much. Mum and Dad are even closer. They’re together 24/7. So it’ll be even harder for them. LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Liang and Yongmei’s
only child Qin Zhen visits more often since her father’s diagnosis. |
03:18 |
Qin
Zhen visits parents |
China’s now abandoned One Child Policy has increased the
burden of care on her generation. QIN
ZHEN: I think my main role is to calm their emotions. Often when I turn up,
my dad is losing it. |
03:51 |
Qin
Zhen in kitchen with mum |
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04:19 |
Family
at table |
YONGMEI: Lord, thank you for letting our family love
and support each other. We thank you and appreciate you,
and pray in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen. LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Qin Liang and his
family are the lucky ones. |
04:24 |
Alzheimer's
printed info |
They’re financially secure and well informed, |
04:45 |
View
of apartment buildings and homes |
with access to medical services and expertise.
It’s a very different story for millions of other families affected by
dementia. Many lack the awareness to even seek a diagnosis. |
04:48 |
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An estimated 93% of dementia cases in China go undiagnosed
and therefore untreated, leading to increased suffering |
05:04 |
Wang
Shihong into office |
for patients and their carers. WANG
SHIHONG: We’re not ready. We’re not even prepared for the challenge of aged
care as a whole, |
05:15 |
Wang
Shihong interview |
let
alone dementia care. People in policy planning see the problem. They’ve
started to learn more. |
05:24 |
Wang
Shihong at work |
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Wang Shihong is the
founder of Xianhe Social Work Group, a network of community-based service
centres covering greater Beijing. China’s nursing homes cater for just 1% of
the elderly population. |
05:35 |
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Few of them offer specialised care and many simply
refuse to accept dementia patients. Groups like Xianhe get government funding
to help relieve the burden on people at home. |
05:53 |
Beijing street GV |
In this part of central Beijing, Xianhe serves
around 500 households, about 50 of which include someone with dementia. |
06:07 |
Xing
and Zhu Min's home. Xing cooks |
XING: I get up around 5 or 6am. I
do some cleaning and laundry. When I’m in the kitchen and she’s inside, I
need to be able to hear her. If something’s wrong, I need to rush to her. |
06:20 |
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LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Xing Dengyun and his
wife Zhu Min are among those who get support from Xianhe. They’re both blind. |
06:45 |
Xing
and Zhu Min eat, Zhu Min takes medication |
Min has the most common form of dementia,
Alzheimer’s, and relies on Dengyun for everything. They have a son, married with one child, who
travels a lot for work and visits when he can. They met almost 50 years ago
while working in a State-owned factory for the visually impaired. |
06:59 |
Xing
interview |
XING: She was alone. I noticed, so I helped
her get some water from the tearoom. That was the beginning. I’ve
looked after only one woman my whole life. She needs special care. You can’t
make her anxious, angry or sad. I feel bad if she
suffers. |
07:26 |
Xing
puts phone on bed |
XING:
"I’ll put it here." ZHU:
"Don’t care." XING:
"You don’t care? Okay, I’ll just leave it here." Does
she have feelings? She does. Once I played her a certain opera that reminded
her of her mum. She started to cry. She missed her mum. |
08:03 |
Xing
and Zhu Min sit on bed |
"Are
you hungry?" ZHU:
"I’m going home." XING:
"Going home? This is our home." ZHU: "No. XING: "No?" ZHU: "No." XING:
"Okay, let’s go. Wear one more layer." ZHU:
"No." XING:
"Okay, let’s go. |
08:36 |
Xing
and Zhu Min at front door |
Now
we’re at our doorstep." ZHU:
"No, it’s not." XING:
"Isn’t this the gate?" ZHU:
"No." XING: I’d like to go out, but I can’t leave
her alone. Actually, she likes going out too. She
loves going out. |
08:58 |
Xing
and Zhu Min return inside |
But our health doesn’t allow it. ZHU:
"Where’s my mum?" XING:
"Your mum’s not here." ZHU:
"Where is she?" XING:
"She died in 1984." |
09:17 |
Xing
helps Zhu Min into chair |
My dream? I’d like to take her to the
beach. |
09:38 |
By high-speed rail. By plane. I need to
postpone it for now. Interview |
By high-speed rail. By plane. I need to
postpone it for now. |
09:40 |
Elderly
woman walks in Changping |
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: In Changping
district, on the rural fringe of Beijing, |
09:49 |
Wang Shihong visits elderly |
Xianhe Social Work Group runs an outreach service
for the elderly. |
09:58 |
|
WANG
SHIHONG: The two 'left behind' groups in rural areas are the elderly and the
kids. Workers who move to the city have no choice but to leave the elderly
and very young behind. |
10:02 |
Rural
elderly |
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: The rural-urban
divide is one of the defining inequalities of life in China. For the elderly, it’s especially stark. Old
age pensions and medical rebates are much lower in rural areas than in
cities. Rural elderly have smaller incomes, fewer
services and yet far higher rates of chronic illness like dementia. Rural
seniors are more likely to be empty-nesters, and they suffer the highest
rates of suicide of any group in China. |
10:15 |
Wang Shihong on phone |
WANG
SHIHONG: "Yeah, I’ll meet you first. " |
10:52 |
Wang Shihong with case worker on home visit |
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Wang Shihong is
joining one of her local case workers on a follow-up home visit. At the
woman’s home they’re met by two of her relatives from the village. Shihong believes the elderly woman they’re
checking on has Alzheimer’s, although she has not been formally diagnosed. LI:
"Why are you untying your
shoes?" |
10:55 |
Wang Shihong visit Jin Rulian and daughter |
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Jin Rulian is widowed
and lives with her daughter Liu Shuangyan, also a widow. Shuangyan is her
mother’s principal caregiver, even though case workers believe she has an
undiagnosed intellectual disability. |
11:19 |
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LI: "Sit down, sit
down. Have you eaten?" JIN:
"What did I have today? I forgot. When did I eat? I forgot." |
11:36 |
|
LI:
"What did you have for breakfast?" JIN:
"What meal? They left early. Today’s the first day." LI:
"What?" JIN:
"Of school." LI:
"Who went to school?" JIN:
"Both of them." |
11:48 |
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WANG
SHIHONG: She’s going back to their childhood. One symptom is mixing up
different timeframes. She can’t control her mind and gets easily confused. |
12:05 |
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"Try
not to remind her too much. The more you try to remind her, the more anxious
she gets." |
12:15 |
|
Families
aren't very aware of this condition.
The symptoms are showing up but they’re not
taken as something needing medical attention. If it can be spotted early,
through screening for example, more can be done to slow the patient’s
deterioration before it’s too late. |
12:23 |
JIn
and daughter |
JIN:
"I take care of myself. Myself for myself. If I can do it myself, I’ll
do it." LIU:
"Yeah. It’s good you’re mobile. If you weren’t, who would look after
you? Live two more years." JIN:
"I’ve lived until I’m stupid." LIU:
"Going mad won’t help." JIN:
"No." |
12:54 |
|
LIU:
"Hey. Sit down. Sit down." JIN:
"No. I won’t sit anymore. I still want to…" LIU:
"What is it?" |
13:32 |
|
JIN:
"None of your business! I’ve got places to go." LIU: "Sit down." JIN: "No, no, no! This
is my, this is my…" LIU:
"Where are you going?" |
13:42 |
JIn
attempts to pack bag |
JIN:
"I’m leaving with my luggage! What place is this? I can’t be here." LIU:
"Where are you moving it? Just put it here!" JIN:
"No, I’m leaving." LIU:
"Where are you going?" JIN:
"You tell me. Where can I go?" LIU:
"What are you doing? Just sit here and wait." JIN:
"I’m done trusting you. |
13:52 |
|
Whoever
fucking trusts you is a fool. You’re a scheming bastard. And I thought you were a good person. Go fuck yourself! As soon as I leave, you’ll have me killed.
Don’t sit there! That’s someone’s spot." |
14:22 |
|
WANG
LIYAN: So, the situation is a woman in her late 40s with impaired mental
capacity is taking care of someone with Alzheimer’s. It’s a very difficult
situation. |
14:47 |
Wang
Liyan with Wang Shihing |
Families
like theirs are not isolated cases at the lowest levels of society. WANG
SHIHONG: Especially in rural areas. |
15:05 |
|
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Back at the Changping
office, Wang Shihong catches up with her old friend and colleague, Wang
Liyan. Liyan recently retired as the
manager of a nursing home. She understands more than most the challenge of
dementia care. |
15:17 |
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LIYAN:
Caring for these patients requires a lot of expertise. Even if it's your own
mum or dad, it’s a tough job taking care of them when they can no longer do
it themselves. If my parents deteriorated that far, I couldn’t look after
them on my own. It’s almost a reflex to turn away from such a difficult
scene. |
15:34 |
Liang
walks with Zhen |
QIN
LIANG: Normally I can’t bring one with me, but today I just managed to grab
my pack. QIN
ZHEN: I come home every second weekend or whenever my mum has something on or a friend asks her out. On weekdays I’ll come and
walk with my dad. It gives them some space. "What’s
up?" |
16:04 |
|
QIN
LIANG: "Huh?" QIN
ZHEN: "Let’s go." QIN
LIANG: "Let’s go." QIN
ZHEN: The saddest thing is the idea that he’s lost his self-worth. |
16:43 |
Zhen
and Liang play badminton |
Also,
sometimes when his mind’s a mess he’ll forget who I am. Or Mum. When he can’t
recognise me, he’s quite calm. But when he can’t recognise my mum, he’ll push
her away, or even get violent. |
16:57 |
Liang
at home cutting fish |
YONGMEI: He’s always been a very easy-going person,
tolerant and kind. Now on a bad day, if you initiate physical contact he’ll
bristle, 'Don’t touch me!' And you don’t know what to do. |
17:36 |
Yongmei
|
It
feels terrible, it really does. |
18:02 |
Zhen
and Liang with stimulation device |
QIN
ZHEN: "Here. Quick, quick, quick! I don’t know exactly what it is.
Sometimes I use it to stimulate the nerves in my brain." |
18:08 |
|
YONGMEI: It’s been seven years since my mother died.
Now I’m trying to look after someone with similar needs, my stamina is
waning. Yesterday, his condition flared up again and again. |
18:26 |
Family
at home |
I
said to God, 'If I can’t do this, find me a nursing home'. I just can’t bear
to put him in that environment. Then I think about my daughter
and I don’t want her to endure so much pressure. She needs to have her own
life, her own family, her own children, and social life. |
18:48 |
|
QIN
ZHEN: It’s like, we should start to
look for an institution, but as soon as I contemplate it, I feel I can’t do
it. That’s probably the traditional Chinese concept of filial piety, of keeping your
parents with you. But the reality is you can’t fulfil your duties of filial
piety. I have considered not having kids, because without kids, if the
same thing happens to me, with what I know now, I could send myself to a
nursing home and it’s done. |
19:15 |
|
YONGMEI: In the end when my mum had a fall, I
couldn’t care for her anymore. I sent her off to a hospital. On my way home,
I cried a lot. I felt like I’d abandoned my mum. But God knows, I just don’t
have the strength. Even though it’s many years since that happened, I still
feel sad. One day when I do the same to him, what will happen? |
20:08 |
Xing
listens to talking clock |
TALKING CLOCK: "2022, March 25th,
Friday. Lunar calendar, 2/23. Current time 10:48pm. Temperature 23.2 Celsius."
XING: "Min, you hungry?" ZHU: "No." XING: "Not hungry?" ZHU: "No." |
20:51 |
|
XING: Let me take a rest. I’ve been busy
all day without a break. |
21:14 |
Xing
sits at table |
I’m exhausted, mentally and physically.
In the senior services centre, they asked me why I haven’t had a recent
health check. I said sorry, I’m too busy taking care of a sick lady. |
21:24 |
Xing
at sink/Zhu sitting on bed |
It’s just my heart. Everything else is ok.
I stopped my medication in summer but in winter it got bad again. She
was really anxious. She’s afraid she’ll be left
alone if I die. |
21:42 |
Xing
washes Zhu's feet |
"Here,
come to the sofa. Let’s wash your feet." |
22:04 |
|
ZHU:
"It’s too hot." XING:
"The heat is soothing." ZHU:
"The water. It’s too hot." XING:
"Other foot." |
22:13 |
|
If
I can’t do all this in two years’ time, I’ll hire a helper. That’s my only
option if my health fails. |
22:26 |
Xing
takes medication |
|
23:00 |
Xing
sits beside Zhu |
"Let
me rest." ZHU:
"Would you like to go out? You don’t?" XING:
"No." ZHU:
"You won’t take me out?" XING:
"Need some rest." |
23:18 |
Church
choir |
|
23:48 |
Yongmei
and Liang in church |
YONGMEI: We started going together in
October. I asked him, would you like to come to a service with me? He said, okay. Even though he didn't share my
faith. PASTOR:
"To our brothers and sisters, beloved by God, peace be with you." CONGREGATION:
"Amen." |
23:55 |
|
[Singing] |
24:20 |
|
YONGMEI:
Compared to a child, it's different looking after someone older. With a child
there’s always hope for the future. But with dementia patients it’s bound to
deteriorate. That sense of a downward spiral can take your mind to a place of
despair. |
24:25 |
|
PASTOR:
"Is Communion important?" CONGREGATION:
"Yes!" YONGMEI:
Whatever happens, there’s a line in the Bible about the Lord’s grace being
enough for all. That gives me strength to carry on. |
24:47 |
|
"Let’s
not focus on this now. Focus on the service." |
25:08 |
Qin
Liang looking at photo albums |
QIN
LIANG: High school. This is my graduation photo. Over 50 people. It was 1980…
1985… '82… '82… I think I graduated
from high school in '85. I forget so many things now. There’s some issue with
my head. There seems to be a… a hole. The doctors say this disease, it’s like
cancer. I won’t live for many more years. I was born in 1964. Born in '64.
Born. |
25:24 |
Super: |
|
26:39 |
Social
workers visit Xing and Zhu and take them on outing |
FAN YINAN: Grandma wants to go out. Last
visit, she said she wanted to go to the shopping district. |
26:47 |
|
XING: "Yes?" SOCIAL WORKER: " Are you ready?" XING: "Yes." FAN: "Have you got the
wheelchair?" XING: "Yep." |
26:56 |
|
LYDIA
FENG, Reporter: Social workers
collect Min and Dengyun to take them on an outing to Wangfujing in downtown
Beijing. |
27:03 |
|
XING: "It’s over there." SOCIAL WORKER: :
"Oh, you know the way?" XING: "Yeah." SOCIAL WORKER: "Ok, I’ll let you lead
the way. The light is green." XING: "Head south." SOCIAL WORKER: "Right, I’ll hold you
and you lead the way!" XING:
"Right, let’s go. Head south." |
27:11 |
|
SOCIAL
WORKER: "When was the last time you came here?" XING:
"40 years ago." SOCIAL
WORKER: "Wow! That’s a long time but you still remember it
clearly." XING:
"Yeah, I remember. Luckily the streets don’t move. |
27:28 |
Xing,
Zhu and Social Workers sit in square |
Min! We’re at Wangfujing! Let’s sit
here." FAN: "Auntie, Uncle Xing is next to
you. He’s not running away." |
27:42 |
|
XING: "The sun feels good. As soon as
we left home, I wasn’t tired anymore." |
27:56 |
Xing
plays song on phone. Xing and Zhu sit in square together |
SONG: From the end of the earth to the
furthest sea I searched for my true love. |
28:10 |
|
XING:
Think about little kids. When they’re
babies, they look different day by day. When they’re older, they change month
by month, then year by year. When they’re adults, it’s decade by decade. Then
it switches. At first, decade by decade, then year by year, month by month,
and finally day by day. It goes backwards." |
28:29 |
|
SONG:
Who in life does not cherish their youth? |
29:05 |
Credits
[see below] |
|
29:26 |
Out
point |
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29:51 |
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